Sunday, 8 March 2009

Lonely Hearts Club Band..

Loneliness. Man is a Social animal and he is NOT supposed to be alone. Friends make a lot of difference, but there's always this certain gap that only one person can fill. And when it comes to me, I've got a saturation point. There're only some things my friends can give me and who am I to demand more from them? Being friends with them isn't a license to let my whims run riot!

Worst feeling ever? Not being hung by your thumb (though I've never tried that). It is feeling lonely, feeling lonely even when you are surrounded by people who go that extra mile to keep you happy. Feeling lonely, inspite of being amidst those very same people you run to when you have a problem. I guess that's hypocritical too. But right now, modest though I try to be, I am lonely.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Nanba, it is ok da. :) Nee expect panada time la figure varuva. Aduku apram vaazhkai romba nalla irukum. :)

productivelylazy said...

Free the man.. Maybe you are just missing your best friend with whom you are no longer talking!

CkisgoD said...

I guess everybody's been there atleast once... and it sucks when it hits you.

But you make your choices ultimately. So choose :)

MST said...

Dey Karthi...
enna da ore thathuvama ezhudhi irukke?

I have to say I did laugh out loud a few times when I went through your posts. Mahesh might get angry if he knew there is another person in the family going through your blog.

I didn't know you trained for a marathon. Enna ford varaikkum odiniya?


- mithra

Karthik.H said...

@anon
may your tamilly golden words come true!

@free
mayb!

@ck
Gah! I don't wna choose!

@mithra
i doubt if mahesh reads my blog but i know for a fact anu does and now you!

didnt train for the marathon! just randomly ran 10kms.. good times..

G said...

I suggest watching old Brit Comedy series. They won't get rid of your loneliness but will sure as hell give you happy things to think about :) also see: Blackadder, Fawlty Towers, Monty Python's Flying Circus.

Ash said...

Haha, I completely empathise. Sometimes, even the people who're closest to you can seem... not Enough.

I suggest chocolate, good music+book+movie. Self-indulgence works wonders for loneliness :)

Karthik.H said...

@G
Big BIG Monty Python fan! They've helped enough.. Strangely, I'm looking towards Vitamin G to help me out.. go figure!

@ash
Inadequate indeed..
as for chocs+movies+music, i get more than more than enough on a regular dose.. should probably restart book thing..

navjot said...

may b u r lonely
bt theres always sum1 made for u
be it b ur frn or luv.....
d only thing v need is to feel d person around us n v can neva b lonely
trust me it works